Friday 29 June 2012

The perfect relationship


“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.”
Oscar Wilde quotes (Irish Poet, Novelist, Dramatist and Critic, 1854-1900)

Self love, is the perfect relationship. This is one school of life that requires conscious decision and an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life. Before any meaningful relationship can start a person’s life self love is paramount. 

Self- esteem plays a big role in this journey self romance. Some time ago I was talking to a friend, she was devastated after her marriage failed and her son was the constant reminder of a wild romance go bad. After two other attempts on the love clinic she  made up her mind not to love again. Her self esteem was shattered, she just existed. It took her six month of guiding and counseling sessions to make her realize that her happiness was in her hands.

When you make a decision to love yourself, all you  want, is to  be lively. You accept that you are responsible for the joy in your life and decide live a fulfilling life. This is the time you tell yourself “The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I'm not going to let myself pull me down anymore.”( C. JoyBell C.)

When you are feeling low and you just don’t want to love any more just Let Go Of Worry and Eliminate Self Criticism. By doing so you will be...

THIS IS ME

  This is me, 
 I and the team of me,
Do you wish to be me?
All I wish is to be me.

The entire make up
Mascara, eye shadow, lips up,
Nail polish, face cream or mix up,
All this will never make me up.

I saw ‘you’ a super star,
I followed all my stars,
Will I fit being a star?
No I will be me my own star.

Take this from me,
Never want to be him,
Or wish that you were her,
Just build yourself, be you.

 ©Christine kasaya