Nothing is going your way? Just Focus

 The next ten years can be the greatest of your life. They can become a Decade of Destiny, where your life is focused and, as a result, you're able to make an impact in all you do-Rick Warren

Many times I have lived in the fool’s paradise. I have had dreams, yes! Great dreams! Others have fades away because were just illusions but others have been planted in my heart. Thou on others eye’s they may seem outlandish, I know I will realize them. The difference between me and them is that I never loss my focus.

This is a proven fact; nothing worth having ever comes easy. If it did, everyone would live a happy, comfortable life with no worries or stress. But one certain thing is we have to earn what we yearn for. The bible tells all the free loaders that ‘whoever does not work should not eat 2 Thessalonians 3:10. This is the first indicator of success ‘work’ and to make it through just stay ‘focused’

Always have ‘Targets’ what do you want to achieve? For each set a ‘time limit’ and beat them before the pre- set deadlines.  Monitor your moves and just think about your own success. What others think may affect you positively or otherwise. Always pick the positive critique, analyze the negatives and work on...

 them to better your progress.

Focus is listening to what others say but not letting their opinion derail you. Always remember “let them advise you but not decide for you”. Always have limits when it comes to your success not everybody will be their smiling when you progress. Many will be having sleepless nights plotting your downfall. As they plot listen to what they say weight the effects and impact and trash away meaningless counsel. 

Friend matter A LOT. Do away with any Toxic Relationships. Friends that do not add value are of no importance.  Keep away from them lest they make a mockery of your destiny. This is the most difficult bit I can promise you. I have had problems with it personally.  We can say ‘swaggless persons ain’t hip but all toxics are hip and not safe. 

By safe I don’t being shelled in. No! Just being away from any distraction that makes you have regrets after the effects. Safe zone are danger zones to success, they make you comfortable and lazy. Breaking this plane to the wild need focus and discipline. 

Discipline is the driving force to any meaningful venture. It is the most difficult to maintain but the most effective focus tool. Last thing my dear. Go and fail the only person in control is you. You are only limited by the size of your belief. Choose to believe anything is possible and everything is within reach. It only takes time, hard work and knowing full well that you will make it.

Maintain discipline, focus and belief you will make it.