More often with family
and friends, we talk sensible and non-sensible utterances. At our comfort zone
speech regulation is at the minimal. Those are the times one should limit
speeches that are bond to bind them. They are the *diseases of the tongue*.
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If you have to avoid
slander do this personal check, on you and your buddies:
Excessive talking- more often those people who talk too much are
prone to either tell loads of lies or exaggerate some minute situation. Attention
seekers fall here; they always want to be heard for the sake of it.
Idle words- speaking for the sake of just ‘speaking’ be weary. Idle words are costly and even embarrassing,
have you ever been asked “who asked for
your opinion?” silence speaks loudest so dear where your opinion doesn’t
count just shut up. Save your breath for another time. Matthew 12:36
But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for
every careless word they have spoken.