More often with family
and friends, we talk sensible and non-sensible utterances. At our comfort zone
speech regulation is at the minimal. Those are the times one should limit
speeches that are bond to bind them. They are the *diseases of the tongue*.
Just as the bible
recons the tongue is the smallest of all body parts but the most dangerous. Remember
from our mouth comes our uttermost feeling Matthew 15:18 But the things that come out of the mouth
come from the heart, and these make a man ‘unclean.’ To some what you speak
reflects who you are. I have been in those situations when words just flew *boom* next was Oh! My God ‘me n’ my big mouth’ mmmhh! Bet you’ve
been there too? James 3:6 The tongue also is a fire, a
world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets
the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
If you have to avoid
slander do this personal check, on you and your buddies:
Excessive talking- more often those people who talk too much are
prone to either tell loads of lies or exaggerate some minute situation. Attention
seekers fall here; they always want to be heard for the sake of it.
Idle words- speaking for the sake of just ‘speaking’ be weary. Idle words are costly and even embarrassing,
have you ever been asked “who asked for
your opinion?” silence speaks loudest so dear where your opinion doesn’t
count just shut up. Save your breath for another time. Matthew 12:36
But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for
every careless word they have spoken.