Bro Code Part 3 :Breaking the bond

Peter wanjala is a testimony of a broken bro code. “I was always doing something stupid because my friends were doing it”, he tells me, and “I would leave food on the table to go help a bro dump his girlfriend” he laughs. That is not funny, it is very annoying. 

Mr. Wanjala would even cancel his family picnic to go watch a game with his friends. His family lost meaning in a nick of time. “Jessica wanjala is the most understanding wife” peter say “she always made sure that the children did not notice a rift” adds the father of three, “she introduced me to Dr. Wahudu and has given me emotional support throughout, I look back and realize how strong she has been in order to save our marriage.”

Jessica tells me that you do not change your man by...

 coming between his friends. Just let him know his role as the head of the family, advice him, do not criticize him. When you have him closer, his friends will come second she says. “It was never easy, that is why a doctor’s help came in handy. I was there were his friends weren’t” says Jessica.

Today peter wanjala is a happy man. He does his best to give his family the full attention he once denied them. His friends see less of him. He no longer struggles to please his mates at the expense of a lovely family he had always taken for granted.  Dr. Patrick Wahudu’s advice to all women facing such situations is to love unconditionally.  

When your position as a woman is defined in your man’s life all other bonds that existed will be broken.

According to Dr. Wahudu such bonds are psychological. With professional psychological counseling and the support of a family many men are breaking from them daily. Though the bro code is a phase of life, it passes with time. 

In-case you are still marveled  The Bro Code is universal not only written in hearts but also in books. Spectacular or not It's Phenomenon.