Other people don’t matter just be you.

The whole universe acknowledges that you are unique. Praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14. When you ask yourself “whom am I?” just say I am me, me and the team of I. 

Are you uncertain about your personality status? Just do the self-esteem check up. Evaluate yourself and take a brief preview on your values. Find if your standards measure then, be you. Finding yourself is as easy as one, two, and three.  

Just be honest and open we’re all imperfect, growing, learning human beings. Relax Stop worrying about the worst that could happen, especially in social situations. So what if you fall flat on your face? Or get spinach stuck in your teeth? Or accidentally head butt your date when leaning in for a kiss? Learn to laugh at yourself both when it happens and afterward. Turn it into a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that you're not perfect and makes you feel more at ease, too. It's also an attractive quality for someone to be able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously!

Treat yourself as you'd treat your own best friend, love and accept yourself as you are now, just as you do for your close ones. Be responsible for yourself and for boosting your self-esteem. If others aren't...

 telling you you're great, don't let it get to you. Instead, tell yourself you're special, wonderful, and worthwhile. When you believe these things about yourself, others will recognize that glow of self-confidence and begin confirming your self-affirmations in no time.

Develop and express your individuality whether it's your sense of style, or even your manner of speaking, if your preferred way of doing something strays from the mainstream and produces positive outcomes, then be proud of it. Be a character, not a type. Learn to communicate well - the better you can express yourself, the easier it is for the people who like you as you are to find you and the ones who don't to just steer clear.

Stop comparing yourself to others. If you're always striving to be someone you're not already, you'll never be a happy person.  Comparison leads to resentment. A person filled with resentment cannot focus on the mantra of "be yourself" because they are too busy hankering after someone Else's spoils!

Comparison leads also to criticism of others. A life filled with criticizing others stems from low self-esteem and a need to pull others off their perches that you've placed them on. That's both a way to lose friends and respect, and it's also a way of never being yourself because you're envy-struck and spending too much time on others, not on improving yourself.

Follow your own style. The common thing a lot of people do is copy others' actions because it seems like the better route to fit in, but really, shouldn't you stand out? Standing out is very hard, yes, but you need to try avoid assuming other people's perspectives of you, even if it's not something you would normally do; that's what being yourself is all about.