Moving on…

Many a times we are usually stuck in our past. We try to move and overcome but end up moving in cycles. one thing my dear just move on. 

Oscar Wilde once said with his usual wit: Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. Build your own paradise, just imagine it and make it a reality. Dwelling on your past doesn't help, avoid fixating on the past but rather move on. Allow yourself this space to grow, to improve, to become wiser. Allow yourself to forgive past errors and past behaviors you're not so proud of.

 

 Work on accepting mistakes and choices you've made; they're done and in the past. You had your reasons for them and the decision made sense at the time, so instead of harnessing yourself to past...

 mistakes, allow yourself to learn their lessons and continue to grow. Growth into every new age and stage of our lives is an essential part of being true to ourselves and to being emotionally healthy and whole.

 

Stop caring about how people perceive you. Some of them will like you and some of them won't that is the harsh reality of life. As a friend once told three words about life “it goes on”. if you change yourself for one person or group, another person or group may not like you, and you could go on forever in a vicious cycle trying to please people instead of focusing on building up your talents and strengths; being a people-pleaser or always wanting everyone's love and respect is a totally pointless exercise in the end that can harm your personal development and confidence. Who cares what other people say? As Eleanor Roosevelt said once, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent".

 

This is another life lesson when you purpose to move on, you will always be happy. What the world thinks is not what you are. Ask God to guide you in this step and you will move mountains.